Hello, I’m Penny! and Welcome to She’s So Sorted®.
I know how it feels…
To be the one who looks like she’s coping on the outside —
While inside, life feels full, heavy, and quietly out of alignment.
Because this was me too.
Not in a dramatic, everything-fell-apart kind of way…
but in a slow, almost unnoticeable way.
Where life filled up, responsibilities took over…
… and somewhere along the way, I lost connection with myself.
For over 20 years, I worked in a fast-paced career in construction — and in the beginning, I genuinely loved it.
It was what I’d trained for, what I was passionate about, and I gave everything to it.
But over time, the long hours, long commutes, and constant pressure began to take their toll.
What once felt fulfilling slowly became exhausting — and the joy I’d once had started to fade.
From the outside, it still looked successful.
But underneath, it no longer felt like me.
Several years ago, I donated a kidney to my Dad — an experience that changed everything.
It brought life into sharp perspective, and made me realise I wanted more meaning — to help people and do something that truly made a difference.
It also brought a deeper realisation.
The career I had built, and the identity I had attached to it…
no longer felt aligned with who I had become.
But after the donation, life carried on.
I knew something felt off — but I didn’t know what to do about it, or what I would do instead.
And that felt too big to face.
So I did what many of us do.
I buried my head in the sand and threw myself back into work — focusing on climbing the career ladder, telling myself that getting further ahead would make me happy and quiet those thoughts.
But it didn’t.
Instead, I ended up exhausted, running on empty.
My mind never switched off.
I kept going on the outside — but underneath, I felt completely disconnected from myself.
With my Dad in 2012 before doing the Great North Swim for Kidney Research.
Behind closed doors, I was breaking down — wondering if I’d ever feel like myself again.
Those thoughts didn’t go away — they got louder.
That quiet voice kept returning — persistently, in the background —
until I finally listened.
Telling me there was more to life,
and that I wanted more for myself.
Me back in 2021; exhausted,
miserable & a shell of myself.
Eventually, I made the decision to reset my life.
It wasn’t easy —
but it was clear what I needed to do.
I left the career that was draining me.
Because I could no longer ignore what it was costing me —
my health, my relationships, my freedom, my dreams…
and that quiet, persistent knowing
that it was no longer aligned with who I was.
And for the first time in a long time, I stopped and asked myself a different question:
“What do I want this next chapter to look like?”
And instinctively, I turned to something that had always grounded me — without fail. Decluttering.
I’ve always felt the power of the shift it creates-
that sense of lightness, clarity…
like something has been released.
When I felt stuck and disconnected, I came back to the one thing that made sense —
clearing the physical and emotional clutter around me.
That’s when I discovered the KonMari Method®, which helped me reconnect with what truly matters and let go of what didn’t.
It became a lifeline.
Because it wasn’t just my home I was clearing — it was my life.
Layer by layer, I let go of what no longer fit,
creating space to think clearly, breathe, and reconnect with myself.
And without realising it, everything began to change.
That process opened the door to something bigger.
And I went on to retrain in the areas that had supported me most on my journey:
Here’s what I learned
Clearing your life is powerful — but it’s only the first step.
Because once the noise fades, you realise you have a choice in how you want to live.
This is where everything changes
Now I help other women do the same –
Supporting women over 40 who feel like their life no longer fits — even if everything looks “fine.”
Helping them let go of what’s weighing them down
and create a life that feels aligned, intentional, and their own.
You don’t just feel lighter — you start living differently.
Making clearer decisions, building habits that support you, setting boundaries, and creating a life that reflects who you are now.
Because I know what it feels like to keep everything going… while something inside you is quietly asking for more.
When nothing is obviously “wrong” — but it still doesn’t feel right.
And I also know what happens when you start to clear what’s no longer working.
You create space — in your home, your mind, your life — and something shifts.
You think more clearly.
You feel more grounded.
You start making different choices.
And those choices change everything.
This is why I do what I do.
Because I get to help women move forward — lighter, clearer, and no longer held back by what’s been weighing them down.
If something inside you knows things need to shift – trust that.
Even if you’re not sure where to begin — I want you to know:
Let’s have a relaxed, no-pressure chat. Just you, me and a hot cuppa.
We’ll talk about what’s no longer working, what’s keeping you stuck & what you want your life to look like next.
And from there, we’ll decide your next step.
I’m here when you’re ready.
Penny x
When I’m not coaching, you’re more than likely to find me outdoors!… I am a paddleboarding junkie, adventure seeker, nature, ocean and animal lover & I’m happiest when I’m at the coast with my beautiful labrador retriever Poppy; my best friend and fellow paddle-buddy.
I love being outdoors, walking in nature & being in and on the water. Whether it be wild swimming or paddleboarding, whatever the weather, I’m in my happy place, getting up close & personal with nature, living my best life. I also love wild, wet and windy walks on the beach, followed by a big mug of tea (or a glass of wine) and a good book.
I love & appreciate the simple things in life.
By clearing away what no longer served me, I unlocked the time and freedom to pursue what I love most – alongside the people (and four-legged friends!) who bring me joy.
Now, I’m on a mission to help others do the same.
I have built a powerful toolbox of skills designed to help you:clear what no longer fits and create a life that truly does.
Certified Health and Wellbeing Coach (Raw Horizons Academy)
Helping you build habits and mindsets that nurture your energy and wellbeing every day.
Master of Life Coaching – Wild Success
Certified KonMari® Consultant
Guiding you to clear what no longer serves you and keep only what sparks joy — bringing calm and happiness into your home
NLP Coach & Practitioner,
Timeline® Therapy
Practitioner, Hypnotherapist (NLP
Training Ltd, Liverpool)
Tools to release limiting
beliefs, fears and emotional blocks.
Certified Professional
Organiser (ADPO)
Practical strategies to
create order in your space
and your life, reducing
overwhelm and stress.
Architectural Designer (BSc Hons)
20+ years designing spaces that truly support how you want to live and feel every day.
Additional Training & Professional Development
Burnout Awareness & Prevention (Training – Burnout Academy)
Because your journey deserves someone who never stops learning how to serve you better.
Each part of my toolbox helps you feel lighter, clearer, and more in control — so you can live your life feeling fully like yourself.
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